Unfortunately, many people see failure as an indictment or personal mark against them, instead of as a tool that can be used to strengthen or to edify them. The truth is, failure in one area may just be an indicator that change may be needed in that specific area of your life. Failure is not an indicator of your self-worth so don’t view yourself as a failure just because you made a mistake. Do however, look at those areas in your life where you have experienced failure and identify what role if any you played. Then if possible, take steps to decrease your chances of experiencing failure in that same area again in the future.  (Igbattmho.org)